After finishing my first term, I’ve already compiled a list of inside knowledge, adjustments to expectations, and things I really wish someone had told me before arriving at Durham. So, here’s an honest guide to avoiding common misconceptions – straight from a Durham student.
The hills are not a joke
Durham is very hilly, so don’t make the same mistake I did: pack trainers and save yourself the £50 ASOS shoe order. Google Maps may promise a 10-minute walk, but it often forgets to mention the near-vertical climb. Give yourself extra time getting to lectures; your legs will thank you.
With that said, the hills are a built-in leg day, so I suppose it’s a blessing in disguise. But if anyone suggests a casual stroll up Cardiac Hill – politely decline.
The workload hits differently
As an English Student, this was my biggest shock. Readings and essays pile up quickly, so invest in a planner or a calendar system. Independent learning is the biggest shock, and studying here is an adjustment after A-Levels, but remember it takes time to adapt, and everyone else is experiencing the exact same thing.
Fewer contact hours definitely doesn’t mean less work – just more self-discipline. Reading lists can be long (and aspirational – no one does all of them), so confine your focus to what genuinely interests you. Staying in Billy B instead of heading for a coffee over at White church is a daily battle, but it does get easier with time.
You don’t need to have your life together in week one
The freshers who look “sorted” are usually faking it. Friendships, societies, and routines all take time to settle, so don’t panic if you don’t “click” instantly with your flat or the first few people you have met. Some of my closest friends have come later – through my course, sports, or random people in the bar queue.
Feeling lonely or homesick at first is extremely normal. I was surprised by how open people were about feeling it – including a memorable group cry in our flat kitchen after our parents had left (the ideal flat bonding!). Talk to your friends, Freps, and your college Talk & Support Teams – homesickness is normal, and almost everyone experiences it, even if they hide it.
It’s more expensive than you expect
University life adds up quickly: formals, tickets, college merch, charity events, or the occasional overpriced bar night. Budgeting early saves stress later, but also remember the first term (especially Freshers’ Week) will probably be the most expensive. If you’re able to, getting a job in Durham is a great way to earn money and meet new people.
TIP: Split your weekly budget – weekdays and weekends – to avoid spending it all at once. And remember, college support officers are always there to help if finances feel overwhelming.
Durham is tiny… and that’s a double-edged sword
You’ll see the same people constantly – amazing for friendships, maybe a tad bit awkward for that situationship you never texted back! Nights out can feel intense on popular days because everyone funnels into the same few places, sometimes the few clubs can be overwhelmingly busy, so I recommend mixing it up with buzzing bars such as Boat Club, Three Bridges (Thridges), or City Bar.
College loyalty is real and can shape your social life more than you expect, but try to get to know a wide, diverse group of students from different colleges, different year groups and different courses. One thing I’ve consistently found at Durham is that both students and staff are genuinely lovely.
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